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Going to the beach |
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In this
country, near the end of spring, as soon as the days begin to be enough hot,
it happens that the beaches begin to be crowded with bathers, both Italian
and foreign bathers. And the beaches remain crowded for the whole summer and
then they empty and remain deserted during the cold months. Why do so many
people go to the beach during summer? Because they want to bathe and to get
tanned; and also because they want to amuse themselves, for they find all
kinds of amusements on the beach. When summer comes, those who live near the
sea hear very often of sea, baths and tans; many of those who work till two
or five o’ clock in the afternoon look forward to finishing their work so
that they might go to the beach, while those who have to work till eight o’
clock wait anxiously for Saturday or Sunday, and all of them wait for their
holidays in order to go to the beach nearly every day. In addition to these
people, there are many others who travels for hours by car or by train or by
bus to spend at least one day each week on the beach. It is sufficient to go
to one of the railway stations which are near the beach to see an enormous
and continuous flow of people dressed indecently going towards the beach. |
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What
happens on the beach? People take off their clothes and remain half-naked,
and sometimes even naked, under the hot and shining sun to get tanned. From
time to time they bathe, they listen to the music, they play soccer or
volleyball or basketball where there are the necessary facilities, they eat
and drink what they have brought there from their houses or they have lunch
in the restaurant or pizzeria which is in the bathing establishment. Not to
mention all those obscene actions which are done by some people in the
presence of all, and all those vulgar speeches and jokes, which concern
almost always the woman, which one can hear. That’s the atmosphere you find
in all the bathing establishments during summer. |
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You,
beloved brothers, must not go to the beach to bathe and to get tanned for the
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What you
need to bear in mind when you consider your body is that it does not belong
to you because it is of the Lord, who bought it, for Paul calls the members
of your body “members of Christ” (1 Corinthians 6:15 - NKJV) and he says to
the saints of Corinth: “You were bought at a price” (1 Corinthians 6:20 -
NKJV). And the Lord not only bought it but also sanctified it by His Spirit, who
dwells in you. Therefore your body is holy and you can’t use a holy thing unworthily.
That’s why the apostle Paul exhorted many times and in various ways the
saints to present their members as slaves of righteousness and not as slaves
of iniquity; such as when he said to the Romans: “Let not sin therefore reign
in your mortal body, that ye should obey it in the lusts thereof. Neither
yield ye your members as instruments of unrighteousness unto sin: but yield
yourselves unto God, as those that are alive from the dead, and your members
as instruments of righteousness unto God” (Romans |
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Therefore,
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Now I will
show that the arguments given by those believers who still go to the beach to
amuse themselves like the sinners are vain and how these arguments are only
pretexts. |
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● ‘The air of the sea is good and the doctor has
advised us to go to the beach above all for the sake of our children’ |
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It is true
that the air of the sea is good, and that it is good to breathe it, however
it is good not only at twelve o’clock or in the afternoon but also in the
morning just before the rising of the sun, and in the evening after the sunset,
when the beaches are empty, and it is good also if you breathe it staying off
the beach. Yet, according to some, it seems that the air of the sea is good
only if you breathe it while you are half-naked and you are standing among
half-naked people! I ask you: ‘How is it that almost all say that the air of
the sea does good to their children, but they hardly ever say that the air of
the mountain also has a salutary effect on their children?’ The truth is that
many believers are slaves of this pleasure of life and they say that they go
to the beach for their children’s sake in order not to appear worldly people
to certain believers. In other words, they play on their children in order to
go to the beach and thus cover their lust. |
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Furthermore,
the Scripture tells the parents to bring their children up in the training
and admonition of the Lord (Ephesians 6:4), therefore parents must not take
their children to the beach because this does not mean to bring them up in
the training and admonition of the Lord. If you accustom your children to go to
the beach of the sea or to the shore of the lake or to the outdoor swimming
pool when they are young, when they are older they will continue to go there,
and since they will be able to go there by themselves without you, they will
go there together with their school friends or fellow workers or even with
their girlfriend. What will you do then, when your children go to the beach
in order to amuse themselves and to give themselves over to immorality and
they cause you endless sorrows? What will you say to them when they say to
you: ‘I go to the beach because the air of the sea is good!’ or ‘It was you
who took me there since I was a child, what do you want now from me?’. |
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Brothers,
wisdom says: “Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he
will not depart from it” (Proverbs 22:6 – NKJV). Therefore, be careful where
you take your children because when they are old they will go to the same
places where you brought them when they were very young. |
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● ‘I go to the beach to get tanned since I
have a fair skin!’ |
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What’s the
good of this tan so extolled? Maybe it helps you to draw attention to
yourself, doesn’t it? But I say to you: ‘Don’t you see that it disappears so
quickly? And what’s more, it cost you much money because you had to buy
special creams. Vanity has become so precious to you! You are chasing after
the wind like the people of this world! Be content with the colour of your
skin that God gave you! Don’t you realize that speaking in this way is
tantamount to accusing God of not making your skin a little darker?’ Why
don’t you glorify God – as David did (Psalm 139:14) - because you are
wonderfully made, instead of complaining about the colour of your skin? You
are like those who dye their hair in order to appear blond or blonde, or like
those who touch up their face or some parts of their face because they are
not happy with their outward appearance. Your mind needs to be renewed for
your thoughts are wrong. |
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● ‘The sea was created by God’ |
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That’s
true, God created the sea and all the things which are into it. However, what
do you mean by that? Do you mean that you have the right to put yourself
half-naked on the beach because God created the sea? If that is what you
mean, then the heat also is made by God, should we then wear indecent clothes
as unbelievers do during summer? How could we think of doing such a foolish
thing? So that you may understand how your words are a pretext and out of
place, I remind you that even the drug addicts, who take pleasure in taking
drugs, say that the plant from which heroin is extracted was created by God;
even those who look at women to lust for them say that it was God who created
women; even fornicators and adulterers affirm that it was God who created
sex: even drunkards say that it was God who created grapes from which wine is
made! As you can see, even those who give themselves over to evil things, in
order to justify their infamous and deceitful lusts, affirm that after all
they use something which was created by God! When will you realize that it is
wrong to justify this deceitful lust of the old man (that is, going to the
beach) saying that after all you have the right to give yourselves to this
pleasure of life because God created the sea? |
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● ‘To the pure all things are pure’ |
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These
words are written in the epistle of Paul to Titus and are taken by many
believers, who are slaves of this deceitful lust, to affirm that to them, who
are pure, going to the beach is a pure thing. But they are wrong, because the
correct meaning of these words of Paul is completely different. The apostle
says: “To the pure, all things are pure, but to those who are corrupted and
do not believe, nothing is pure. In fact, both their minds and consciences
are corrupted” (Titus |
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● ‘It is true that on the beach there are
women who are half-naked or completely naked, but it all depends on the way one
looks at a woman who has her swimming suit on or does not have it on!’ |
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We find
these words on the lips of many women and men, both married and unmarried.
However, I want to say this: ‘If we men strive with difficulty against the
flesh as we walk along the streets of a village or town during all the four
seasons, because the streets and marketplaces are full of women dressed like
the prostitutes, who are everywhere and it is impossible for us not to see
them, what will happen if we go among women who practically have no dresses
on? How will our mind remain pure among them? If our flesh is weak, how shall
we keep it from falling into temptation? I would like to say to those sisters
who say such things: ‘If I told you that once you have fallen into a pit full
of mud you can continue to keep your dresses clean, it all depends on how you
look at the mud into which you are, what would you answer me?’ It seems to me
that you are like the superiors of the priests, who say to the priests when
they receive the priesthood: ‘Take all precautions in order not to fall into
temptation while you confess women in the confessional!’ I say: ‘How can
these poor souls, on whom even celibacy is imposed, avoid sinning with their
mind or body while they are confessing (or after they have confessed) when
they are commanded to put to women some questions that husbands do not dare
to put to their own wives?’ Indeed, it seems to me that you don’t know what
you say, I say it again, you don’t know what you say. Probably you forgot or
you have never heard that king David, who was a man who feared and loved God
and to whom God gave testimony and said: ‘I have found David a man after My
own heart’, fell into temptation and committed adultery because one evening
he saw the wife of one of his soldiers bathing. Here is what the Scripture
says: “And it came to pass in an eveningtide, that David arose from off his
bed, and walked upon the roof of the king's house: and from the roof he saw a
woman washing herself; and the woman was very beautiful to look upon. And
David sent and enquired after the woman. And one said, Is not this
Bath-sheba, the daughter of Eliam, the wife of Uriah the Hittite? And David
sent messengers, and took her; and she came in unto him, and he lay with her;
for she was purified from her uncleanness: and she returned unto her house”
(2 Samuel 11:2-4). Now, we don’t know whether Bath-sheba had some clothes on
or not, but one thing is sure, she was not dressed as usual because she was
washing herself. However, it is more likely that she was naked. That’s when
the fall of David began, then; when he looked at a woman who was bathing. And
how many men sinned after they saw on the beach a woman bathing or
undressing? Only God knows. The fact is that many men go to the beach to look
at women, and many women go there to look at men. And the sad reality is that
right on the beach begins the ruin of many marriages. Know this, that many extramarital
affairs begin on the beach of the sea. Then there are the causes of
separation, divorces, and in some cases there is a crime of passion, which is
called in this way because the unfaithful wife or husband is caught in the
act and she or he is killed, and often the lover also is killed. And who will
hear the cries of their children? How many tears will they shed because of
their parents, who divorced because one of them or both of them decided to
pursue unfaithfulness? And where did they begin to be unfaithful? Right on
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Sisters,
when will you come to your senses? When will your realize that by putting
yourselves half naked before men you induce those who look at you to fall
into temptation? When will you realize that by so doing you are guilty
because you cause those who look at you to sin? Is it not enough for you to
undress before your husband, who has authority over your body? Why do you
want to undress also before other men? O women, who lack discretion, when
will you understand what decency is? When? And now I speak to you brothers,
both married and unmarried, who go the beach: ‘When will you realize that by
putting yourselves half naked before women you induce women to fall into
temptation? When will you realize that you too cause other people to stumble? |
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● ‘The money I spend to go to the beach is
mine, it is not yours, I earned it and I am free to spend it as I like’ |
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It is
true, you are absolutely right in saying that the money is not mine and that
you earned it by the sweat of your brow, but it is also true that it was
given to you by God. Therefore, since it is God who gave you the money you
have, you are called to spend it rightly and not to spend it to satisfy your
fleshly lusts as the unbelievers do. Wisdom says: “The labor of the righteous
leads to life, the wages of the wicked to sin” (Proverbs |
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● ‘I carry my Bible to the beach to read it
and I even evangelize those who are there’ |
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This is
another expression used as a pretext by those who are rebuked by their
conscience when they hear someone exposing this pleasure of life. |
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Now, it is
a good thing to carry one’s Bible to read it, however the fact is that when
you are in the midst of so many people half naked and in the midst of so much
confusion on the beach you can’t concentrate; as for evangelizing on the
beach, it doesn’t make sense for a believer to say that he has turned to the
Lord and then he goes to the beach to evangelize because in this way he
doesn’t show that he has turned from the pleasures of life to the Lord and he
can’t say to the sinners that they must turn to the Lord from the pleasures
of life. From what should a sinner (who goes to the beach during summer)
turn, if he who tells him to turn to the Lord is still a slave of this
deceitful lust? Furthermore, I would like to ask you: ‘How can you speak of
Jesus Christ to men and women who are half naked and you yourself are half
naked? Then, when these believers return from their holidays spent on the
beach they stand up in the place of worship to thank God for sending them to
evangelize on the beach to people half naked! Indeed, some believers say all
kinds of absurd things in order to justify this deceitful lust!! |
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However, what
distresses me most is that most pastors never expose this deceitful lust,
rather if they have the opportunity, they say some words in favour of it
(some of them even change the time of the Sunday worship service to enable
the brethren ‘to enjoy the sea created by God’) for they themselves are still
slaves of this lust. And many sheep are encouraged to go to the beach right
because their pastors say nothing against this lust (for they can’t see the
harm which is in it) and they see or hear that their pastors themselves go to
the beach. Many pastors in name but not in deed say: ‘What’s the harm in it?’
There is harm in it, but they, having been blinded by darkness, can’t see it,
or maybe they pretend they don’t see it. |
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Brothers,
I say to you who still go to the beach: ‘Stop going there’; and to you who
were appointed to shepherd the sheep of the Lord and go to the beach I say:
‘Stop going there and begin to expose with boldness this bad habit’. Instead,
to you who don’t go to the beach – I know you are a minority – because you
are fully convinced that this habit is a bad habit I say: ‘When it’s very
hot, continue to resist the enemy who tempts you to join the sinners and
those believers who go to the beach, resist him, standing firm in the faith
and he will flee from you; know this, that you are abstaining from an evil
thing and that God takes pleasure in your position’. |
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Blessed is
the man who does not walk in the counsel of the wicked, and among other
things he refuses to go to the beach to amuse himself as the wicked do and
recommend him to do. |